Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Presentation of Gifts

The discussion with son's in-laws-to-be was finalised  and hopefully all the
nitty-gritty details ironed out. But somehow I felt all these to be a bit surreal.
Now I'm actually involved in the wedding preparation when each time I'm
just an on-looker and can just go back home and sleep when things got rough.
I know in the months and days to come things will certainly be chaotic when
the day finally draws near.

The first things to do will be the 'ko lai' ceremony or presentation of gifts and
dowry to the bride's family. This day is usually a week before the wedding.
Gifts will be like 2 bottles of liquor, a pair of dragon and phoenix candles,
and 'branded' seafood. Each item will be in pairs and half of each gifts will be
returned to the groom for good tidings. There's the roasted pig and the front
and back portion will also be returned to the groom signifying good luck.
Not forgetting the wedding cakes or small pastries where they will be
distributed to the bride's relatives to announce the wedding of the bride.

So in the coming weekends hubby and I will have to scout around for all
the mandatory items specified. They said you can find all these in Petaling
Street so Petaling Sreet it will be this weekend.

Thursday, July 22, 2010

My Son's Wedding - The Announcement




I've attended numerous weddings and I know that its no small matter arranging a
wedding especially a Chinese wedding with all the mandatory rituals and 'pantang
larang' involved. Therefore I was quite taken aback recently when my son
announced out of the blue that he is getting married and in roughly 2 months time.
Though he is already of marriageable age and its either sooner or later but some-
how I needed to let the idea sink in first. Now its my turn to be involved head
first into all the nitty-gritty details of the wedding and to follow all the wedding
rituals required.

First will be the meeting of in-laws-to -be where all agreement will be make with
regards to dowry, presentation of gifts and the wedding dinner. The wedding
dinner venue has been booked and contrary to remarks by friends that people
need to book restaurant 1 year in advance in order to secure a place has been
thrown aside.

Secondly, will be the 'seong tau' ceremony on the night before the wedding day.
This is actually a simple ceremony performed individually by the bride and
bridegroom in their respective homes in front of an altar to mark the passing
over to adulthood and the start of a new phase of life as a married person.

Phew! this is just the begining and more to come in the coming days.

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Putrajaya Floral Festival

 Located in precinct 2, near the water-front, it is the same venue as the hot-air
balloon festival a few months back. Also we didn't find banners or road
directions showing the way to the place until you actually reached the actual
road leading to the venue. So with high expectations we went there last
Saturday morning but was disappointed and was not what it was touted to be.
We expected a big variety of flowers and a very spectacular flower show. But
what we saw was chrysanthemums in abundance and only the heliconia garden
is attractive.

Thinking that the international pavilion, housed in an air-conditioned  hall would
be interesting and more comfortable in the air-conditioned hall, we joined a long
queue waiting at the entrance.Here, the dominant flowers used by the foreign
countries seems to be the heliconias and spectacular they are not. There are also
floral arrangement and nature set-up by schools and corporations.

Heliconia Garden 



                                                                                                                                                                                              

The International Pavilion

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Cooking Tips - Chinese Salted Vegetables

In every Chinese household there is always the frequent use of
salted vegetables and almost all of them are from China. Though
people nowadays are quite wary of using products from China but
the popular ones, I has been consuming since childhood. Whether
used in soups, meats or porridge, they are very versatile
vegetables.

The many uses of salted vegetables



This is called 'char choy' and again I gave the Chinese name of this
vege because these are Chinese vege and your grocer may not even
know the English names of these vege.
The packet version of this char choy is tasty too and its not salty.
You don't need to soak it and it can be consumed immediately.Its a
favourite when we go hiking or trekking and very convenient. Fried with
minced pork, you can have a dish in a minute. You don't need to add in
anything except some sugar and pepper. It goes well with porridge too.

The bulb-like char choy on the right is a vege which has been around
for ages. Being very salty, it needs to be soak and rinsed for
many times before it can be used. But one great tip is to use it
if you are making ABC soup. Then you don't have to soak it too long.
ABC soup makes use of many vegetables like tomato, celery, potato,
onions, carrots and either pork or chicken bones. Just cut up the
char choy into big pieces, rinse thoroughly and add in with the rest
of the vegetables. There's no need to add any salt and the taste is
just great.
Add a few pieces to fish before steaming is also another use of it.
In steamed minced pork, just place several pieces on top of the
minced meat and there's no need for any salt or soya sauce. But for
this dish the char choy needs to be soaked for sometime. Also it
has to be cut up first before soaking so the saltiness will rinse
away faster.









This is 'toong choy', another very salty vegetable. Like the
char choy, this is also a very ancient vegetable. It has to
be rinsed and soak many times before using.
For use in minced pork and steamed, the pork needs to be
chopped up manually and not to use a blender or even buy the
minced version from the butcher. Chopping up the meat and
toong choy manually makes the dish tastier. Add in some sugar
and 1bsp of cornflour, mix together and steamed either in a
wok or more conveniently in your rice cooker just before the
rice is cooked.
For making vermicelli soup, just add in two tbsp and see the
difference in taste. Likewise, for porridge it gives a great
taste to it too.








This is 'tai tau choy' which is great for making peanut soup.
The peanuts have to be the one for making soup and not the
one for frying like what you have in nasi lemak. The meat has
to be pork meat and the tail bones. Rinsed thoroughly and
add into soup together with some red dates. Remember not to
add in salt.
Also like the toong choy, this vege can also be used in steamed
minced meat. Just remember to chop up into small pieces and soak
before using.

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Cooking Tips - Steamed Chicken


Tong Kwai and Wolfberry(kei chi)



Steamed chicken is only for old folks, my younger son used to say
and he might be right.For almost all youngsters, what better way
to eat chicken than the fried crispy skinned ones like the KFC.
Also my normal way of steaming chicken, the old-fashioned way
as taught by my mother, is to include dried Chinese mushrooms,
'kum chum' and black fungus which even I myself don't like.
Another type is the steamed whole chicken which we Chinese used
to offer on our ancestor's tablet on Chinese festivals with green
vegetables and spring onions placed on top of the chicken. This
type of chicken usually ends up boiled with 'kai choy' and all
unfinished dishes of the festival with assam pieces. This way it
turns up a great dish and my 2 sons relish this dish very much.

A better and more nutritiuos way to steam chicken is to make it
simple, where less is more. Less, because the ingredients are only
tong kwai, kei chi, ginger. More as in more nutrition from the
herbs. Kei chi by the way is also known as wolfberry. I only knew
about this recently when I was browsing through a Chinese magazine
in my hair dresser's place. What a delight to find a recipe with
English translation but was stuck with the wolfberry. My hair
dresser translated it as kei chi in the Chinese version.

Tong kwai is a herb which I can personally vouch for especially
for women and no harm for men too. But a lot of people just
couldn't stand the smell especially my younger son. Whenever I
brewed the herbs he will say 'ma, you are not brewing the foul-
smelling herbs again?' I explained that even 'bah kut teh' has
tong kwai in it and you are not complaining.

Ingredients

tong kwai- just 2-3 pieces so that the taste will not be too
overwhelming.
kei chi - 1 tbsp.
ginger - several pieces.
soya sauce - to taste
salt - to taste
Chinese cooking wine - 1 tbsp.
kampung chicken.

Method

Just mix all ingredients into the chicken and steamed for
15-20 mins. Please note that chicken in pieces will cook
faster than a whole chicken thigh. You can plunge in a
chopstick if you are not sure. If the liquid is clear then
its cooked.